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One for the weekend: are you a user or a custodian of your house?

Yep, this is our house; not kidding!
Yep, this is our house; not kidding!

Usually on Fridays I let my hair down, so to speak, and tell you a bit more about what I’ve been thinking and doing. And more often than not I tell you about me being a frugal artist with food; stuff like my baking, my soups and the tasty dishes from my mother’s recipe notebook.

After all, when it comes to frugality, it is hard to beat an Eastern European woman who lived through the Second World War.

Tonight I didn’t cook and we committed the ultimate sin: we had Domino’s pizza. And I know I’ll pay for this with stomach ache and broken sleep.

I felt so tired, I could just about eat my dinner but not cook it. For weeks I’ve been working full speed on my day-job and have been blogging like a woman possessed.

This is why tonight I was eating greasy pizza and distracting myself from the thought that it is about 1,000 calories per bite by looking around the kitchen.

Gosh, it needs doing up.

Our long term readers remember that we had to redo the kitchen ceiling (it was falling down) and decorated; this was three years ago now.

And here is the thing: I realised we are headed towards a potential conflict of values and priorities.

We are focused on accumulating ‘capital’ and investing. At the same time we are not the users of this house, we are its custodians. Being a custodian comes with a duty of maintenance, renovation and improvement.

This made me look around our house, make a list of all that needs doing (I’m getting really good at making lists) and how much it will cost. We’ll need to add what we need to spend on the house to our calculations of what we’ll need for retirement.

Here it is.

One big job: re-model the kitchen

Re-modelling the kitchen is the last big structural job that is left to do after we changed the roof and put solar panels on last autumn.

kitchen

This is our kitchen at the moment. Yes, I can cook in it but as you see it is not very pretty. It is not that functional either – there is a small room to the side (this is where our fridge is and my wonderful espresso machine); there is a door that leads to a back room (where the washing machine is) and the back door leading to the garden.

Very bitty, the widows are small and there isn’t enough light in it.

Our plan is to close the door to the small side room and move the downstairs bathroom there; to knock down the wall to what is now the downstairs bathroom and open the space down towards the garden.

I can see it in my mind – more open and continuous space bathed in light. And, of course new kitchen units.

We need an architect, we need a structural engineer and we need a builders’ crew in for at least couple of months. Oh, and the decorating.

We also will need to move out while the work is going on.

Estimated cost: £50,000 ($82,850)

Decorating

Bathrooms

We don’t live in a mansion but we have we have four bathrooms: three of these were done up during the last four years. Only the downstairs bathroom will need to be done but it is part of the Big Kitchen Project.

Bedrooms, hall and stairs

I thought these are okay until I looked carefully tonight. Four out of our five bedrooms need decorating (one of these serves as John’s study; still, it needs decorating).

Our hall and stairs most certainly need re-decorating; Suzi the Dog is helping by having the occasional nibble on the stairs and the plaster.

We did decorate when we moved in; this is a long time ago now. Also we have the Dreaded Woodchip. If you my reader don’t know what woodchip is have a look at the photograph.

woodchip1

Yes. In the time when people can have custom made individual wallpaper, like the one offered by onlineprinters.co.uk, we have this paragon of bad taste that was popular in the 19080s. God only knows why.

Then again, hardly anything good came from the 1980s – fashion was dire, hairstyles wild and decoration really lame.

Anyway, there was woodchip on the walls when we bought the house and didn’t deal with it immediately: usually it hides the need for re-plastering.

During the next five to six years all woodchip will have to go.

Estimated cost: £11,000 ($18,200)

Reception rooms and my study

On the ground floor we have two reception rooms (a sitting room and a dining room) and my study.

Only one of these – the sitting room needs decorating. Unfortunately it has the Dreaded Woodchip on the walls.

Estimated cost: £1,500 ($2,400)

User or custodian?

You see, being a custodian can be pricey. My list and calculations are not really light Friday evening fun.

Being custodians of our house will cost us an estimated £62,500 ($103,450).

I still will choose this anytime: being a custodian of the property you own is not only the right thing to do for the ones who come after you – it is also the right thing for you.

Only re-doing the bathrooms had a large positive effect on us: life is so much more enjoyable when one has a shower in a nice bathroom; one is so much happier and more productive when resting in a nice bedroom.

Are you a user or a custodian of your house?

10 thoughts on “One for the weekend: are you a user or a custodian of your house?”

  1. Remodeling a kitchen and bathrooms is a pretty good investment because almost dollar for dollar invested, it is added to the value of your home. The rest is less, but still have a high value. So why not enjoy it while you live there. I think I will go through this in the next three years.

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    • @Krant: Quite right. After all it is not just a house and it certainly isn’t an investment (though it’s increased in value a lot) – it is our home. We’ll need to sort it all out and enjoy our life here.

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  2. I think your house is beautiful, woodchip or no. £50K on a kitchen sounds crazy, though! Surely at least some of that is money down the (kitchen) drain? Would a £50K kitchen really put another £50K onto the value of your house?

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    • @Miss Thrifty: Well, it may be a bit less :). You are probably right there is ‘money doen the kitchen drain’ here. But…

      We’ve discussed the building work with the guy who did our bathrooms and who arranged our reef to be done for half the quote we got initially. This guy is a whizz of project management! He says it will be at least £35,000 to knock the walls down and move things around. We’ll need to leave the house (and possibly take all electronics with us…it will add up, is what I think. If we could do it for less we will!

      As to the woodchip – sorry, my friend, it has to go (and thanks for thinking our house is lovely).

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  3. Wow, that is an expensive kitchen reno! I have never heard of using an architect for a reno, unless you are building a brand new kitchen, but maybe it’s different over here. I actually quite like the look of your kitchen. The counters are pretty!

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    • @Daisy: If you knock down walls you need an architect. This is because if you knock down a wall that carries the weight your house may fall down. And thanks; the counters are not too bad but the rest really needs doing up.

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  4. My bff who lives in London did a similar kitchen remodel. She had a small kitchen that she had expanded and used up some of the backyard (garden) space that she wasn’t utilizing affectively. She now has room for a kitchen table in the kitchen and enjoys throwing dinner parties frequently. I do think that she spent around what you’ve been quoted. I DO think that you counters are pretty, but there is nothing nicer than showing your home some love and taking care of things. I’m putting in new windows/a new floor in the bedroom/fixing things and each time I cross an item off my list I’m soooo happy.

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    • @Michelle: I agree with you; making your living space nicer feels wonderful. I remember the great difference the doing of the bathrooms made to our quality of life. Having said that, I don’t think I’ll ever be like some people spend their lives remodelling houses. I like ‘nice’and I like ‘lived in’.

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