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Do You Have Too Much Debt: the six rules of debt busting

 

Yesterday I read the story of a guy who took loads of pills and booze trying to kill himself because he had too much debt.

He survived and was left with sore tum, a hurting head, and the embarrassment of failure. Embarrassment for which his parents were very, very grateful.

It doesn’t have to be a guy; it can be a girl.

It doesn’t have to be someone young; it can be someone who is just about to retire.

It doesn’t have to be tens of thousands; it can be only a couple of thousands.

Anyone can find themselves in too much debt. As I’ve said before, the important thing is not whether you are in debt; the important thing is what you do next. And the beliefs about debt you hold.

It doesn’t matter whether you are young or mature, whether you are skilled or not, whether your debt is high or not: every debt problem has a solution.

There are different solutions. You can go bankrupt; you can do an IVA (Individual Voluntary Arrangement) or you can buckle up and pay your debt off. I’m very old-fashioned and believe we should pay our debt off.

This doesn’t mean that you should go it alone as we did. If you have any doubts or need help, you can approach a number of debt advice services and/or arrange a Debt Management Plan (DMP).

More importantly, you have to learn about – and remember – these six rules of debt busting and debt busting tips.

#1: Too much debt? Make your budget really tight

Look at your income and expenditure; if you have looked recently, look again – this time properly.

Make sure you really know what you spend every day, every week every month down to the penny. A friend of mine has a line in her budget for the difference between what she has recorded as spent and how much money has left her account – she calls it ‘GKW’ (God knows what).

If your GKW budget line is large it is time for mindful spending again.

Your objective is to make sure your budget is as tight as the red dress Julia Roberts wore in Pretty Woman.

This doesn’t mean that there shouldn’t be space for life – it only means that your GKW line should be no more than several pence.

#2: Your budget is the story of your life

Teach yourself to look at your budget as the story of your life.

Most people get this wrong – they look at their budget and see numbers so they start adjusting them. Many organisations and businesses do the same: budgeting is a number gymnastics and then they wonder why reality is so different from their spreadsheet.

Don’t compare numbers; compare life events.

Would you rather go to a concert or have a bottle of really good wine? You may decide to do either but this has to be a decision; not a bodged arithmetic exercise.

#3: Stabilise your budget by spending less

If your budget is as tight as it could be and you are still getting in debt instead of getting out of debt your cash flow is negative.

In other words, you do spend more than you earn. Your first task is to ‘stabilise’ this and the fastest way to do it is to reduce spending.

Forget about the ‘latte factor’ – depriving yourself of the small stuff that can give you so much pleasure will only make you feel resentful.

Big savings are made on the ‘big’ stuff.

To decide what needs to be cut and how to look at the different kinds of expenditure on your list.

Do you pay more than 60% of your income on ‘constant’ expenses like mortgage, loan repayments, and taxes? If you do, you may need to make some hard choices – you may have more house than you can afford!

Immediate gains in saving though can be also made by looking at your changeable expenditure – this includes all kinds of insurance and contracts that can be negotiated. This is a budgeting tool you can use to do this.

This step is about stabilising your budget so that you know that every month there is enough money in your account to cover all your financial obligations.

#4: Increase your income

Only after that look at your income – but look carefully! How can you sustainably increase this?

Selling stuff on e-bay and doing garage sales helps temporarily but is unpredictable and unsustainable.

To kick the debt’s ass you need to develop reliable, regular, and sustainable sources of income.

And please do note the plural – one is a very unstable number.

It is like trying to make a toothpick stand vertical – impossible. Now try the same with three toothpicks; easier, huh? It is the same with income – it is better to make $1,000 from three different sources than from one source.

#5: Become an ‘ideas generator’

Start generating ideas about how you are going to earn more.

It is very tempting to come up and stay with one ‘big’ thing; something that you have come to regard as your ‘special gift’ or something that people tell you is easy. Don’t do that!

It is likely that your ‘special gift’ is fairly thin; it may be wise to go with something you value less as a gift but as a niche.

Yes, I would like to make money writing best-selling novels. But I know that though I am not that bad as a writer, there are so many who are so much better and the competition is cut-throat.

I make a bit from my writing but I certainly can’t live on it. So I keep looking. And no, I don’t think I can write porn, lucrative as this may be.

Dreaming is easy; realising ideas is never so. This needs persistence, research, knowledge, learning and so many other conditions.

Did you know that roughly two of any ten ideas you may have will succeed? Well, now you do!

#6: Throw everything into your debt

Earning more and spending less is great.

For it to result in a kick-butt debt busting you need to make sure that the whole difference between what you earn and what you spend goes against the debt.

When we did this one our smallest payment was slightly over £4; our largest was over £8,000.

Do that, keep focused, and watch your debt crumble.

Finally…

Having too much debt doesn’t have to be the end. It is a problem and every problem has at least one solution.

Follow these six rules of debt busting to deal with too much debt!

And if you find these helpful, tell your friends; tell them to tell their friends.

We can transform the UK from a nation of debtors to a nation of creators!

13 thoughts on “Do You Have Too Much Debt: the six rules of debt busting”

  1. It’s so true. Debt can be managed even when it feels like it’s eating you alive. You wrote out the great, realistic ways to get rid of it. It just takes time, effort, and the willpower to live cheap…

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  2. This makes me so sad. I have had people search ‘I want to kill myself because of debt’ and they have found my blog. I wrote a response to it, too and now I get even more. I ask them to seek help and that your debt sentence is NOT a death sentence. It sucks, but you have to move forward and work hard to get it gone! Thanks for your inspiring post.

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  3. Nice blog – you make some very serious points, but I gotta tell you I laughed out loud when I read about the GKW account. I didn’t have a name for that in my budget at the time I needed it, but I sure as hell recognized it once I saw/read it.

    Really hope the people out there drowning in debt and considering suicide take some hope from your blog and reconsider. We lived WELL below the poverty level for years and now we’re doing pretty well. Sure hope they see some hope in all of this.

    Nicely done.

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    • @Jim: Haha. I know what you mean and also laughed when my friend told me about it. Then made it my mission to get the GNW line in our budget as small as possible (so that the other lines can grow).

      Well done on changing your money fortune. Fancy writing your story for The Money Principle? Stories like that, stories of transformation, can inspire so many people.

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  4. Debt definitely stinks, but it’s not worth ending your life over! These are great step-by-step tips for getting out of debt. It just takes that first step to get things rolling…and perseverance! And the mindset that you actually accomplish this goal.

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  5. Everyone has financial challenges…everyone. Everyone has to learn a hard financial lesson that hopefully sets them on the right path. The challenge is so many people never get to feel the freedom of living without debt. It is wonderful and liberating! However we frequently turn to credit cards or debt to substitute what we feel we deserve. Living a life without debt takes time. Plan on a couple of decades to get there, but once you are there you will never have regrets.

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    • @Lance: I agree that licing a life without debt takes time. Because to become – and stay – debt free needs character building of major proportions. To begin with, one should teach themselves to control their wants. Then there is the financial discipline in knowing what is happening with their money at any point. Still, I believe that one should start and get through the hard bits.

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  6. It’s all about taking one small step to get the ball rolling. Once you get in the habit/mindset of paying off the debt, things start to change. You will feel better seeing that debt get smaller and smaller. But it won’t happen overnight. It takes time. Have the persistence and the patience to push through and great things will happen.

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  7. It’s unfortunate that people could be so emotionally impacted by debt that they simply can’t handle things at all. Debt can be a burden, and one that we’re best staying away from – and it just might take a lot of persistence and determination to get there, but the rewards can be so good. There are some good tips here and food for thought.

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    • @TietheMoneyKnot: Yes, peopled do (I did as well) and while they are emotional about it nothing much changes apart from their health and welbeing. And paying off debt also take ingenuity, flare and having fun while doing it.

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